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O&C Takeout - Watching Him Masturbate

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Fun Sex Questions

Does watching your partner masturbate get boring?

Share you sexpertise and comment (anonymously) below!

This month's take-out question comes from our reader, naturegirl! Thanks!

We've all heard that guys love to watch their wives/girlfriends masturbate, but I would love to know how many women like to watch a guy play with himself!!

I, for one, quite enjoy seeing my husband touch himself, I like to see him get hard, usually while I'm playing with myself. But my interest starts to wane after a few minutes, seeing a guy wanking gets a bit weird after he has got hard.

I love to see a guy ejaculate, but it's the part in between these two points that I find tedious!!

How about others? Do you get bored while watching your partner masturbate?

Let us know by commenting below!

Waiting by Moxy Hart

O&C Take Out is an exciting section created just for our readers. If you think of reading the delectable O&C stories as "eating in," then Take Out is a way for us to order out for opinions, comments and discussion from our readers. We hope it's informative, inspiring and fun! To engage in the conversation, simply submit a comment at the bottom of the article. We look forward to reading what our plethora of sophisticated readers have to say!

Originally published September 2011

Comments

• j brooke
  9/13/2011 1:54:11 PM

  I can't remember, I'm always asleep when it happens. j
• Irene
  9/13/2011 2:06:30 PM

  We sometimes incorporate it into our lovemakiing. Just before he is about to ejaculate inside me, he pulls out and strokes himself until he comes on my breasts, stomach, etc. It took me so long to get him comfortable enough to do this. I think masturbating in front of me had a lot of negative connotations--it was an admission of masturbating, period. (I said, "like everybody doesn't do it, anyway?") I knew that watching him would be a huge turn-on for me. Once I got him to realize that he watches me do it and finds nothing wrong with that, he was able to do it himself. Sometimes he does it, sometimes not. He keeps me guessing.
• CJ
  9/13/2011 3:17:16 PM

  O&C recently asked their readers to comment on their unusual relationships. From the surprised looks I often receive from new found friends, I am in one that apparently is unique. I have known JE since childhood and we are now in our early 60s. We lost contact after high school, but reconnected four years ago through a classmate search. We exchanged cellphone numbers and soon after we met for drinks. We had an instant attraction to one another. JE has been married for 24 years to a beautiful statuesque blond who is quite a bit younger than he. I have been married for 27 years to a man who is 8 years older than I. Though both our spouses had been the hottest sex partners either of us had ever known, the years have cooled the experience. Not for JE and me. I joined him in his business and we created office space in a beautiful house hundreds of miles from our respective homes. For well over three years, he and I spend over half our time in a great Gulf coast town where there is a huge retired population. These guys have disposable income and plenty of time to enjoy life. And we are the darlings of the community....constantly attending wine tastings, local events where we are always arm in arm. We are invited everywhere as a couple and wherever we are, we will dance whenever we hear the right song. A few of our friends aren't aware of our situation, but most know we are married to others. They may shake their heads when we aren't around, but all of them envy our mutual affection and our obvious heat exchange. Yes, we have LOTS of heat! We have the best sex I have ever had! This man should be in the Sexual Olympics. His technique in the cunnilingus department is unparallelled. He is tireless and amazing. I have experienced orgasms that blew my mind! So has he. On his birthday, I saw to it that he achieved six orgasms himself. To date that has been our record. None of my college boyfriends could make that claim. Both of us are nudists, exhibitionists, voyeurs and swingers. We like to push the sexual envelope. We have shared in more than one menage a trois as well as sexual fun and games as a foursome. But not in our little town; we like being an exclusive couple there. When our work is completed for the month, we get in our individual cars and either drive home or to the nearest airport. We return to our separate homes where we have our other life with different people, pets and friends. Admittedly, it is occasionally chaotic...almost schizophrenic. But we know we will come (yes, that is a double entendre) together once again in a matter of days or so. And we'll begin our fun again for whatever time we have. It is a most enjoyable life.
• josie
  9/13/2011 5:46:56 PM

  My husband & I have been discussing this subject for several days. Try as I might, I have never been able to convince him to let me watch, despite my pleas & promises that I would be greatly turned on by such a show. I have offered to let him watch me, to do it at the same time, even to assist him! We have been together four years & I admit that our once hot, adventurous sex life has mellowed greatly. I am (and have been) attempting to remedy the situation but I have a hard time getting him to take sex seriously, let alone experiment. Please readers, keep posting your experiences with this - I need all the help I can get!
• Stephen Margolis
  9/14/2011 8:00:30 AM

  I am a male. The method of male masturbation is repeated stroking, which may be boring to watch. Women should look at the guy's face, which is more interesting. There is a website, beautifulagony.com, which shows only the face of males and females having orgasms. It is a pay site, but has a daily free sample. Here is an example:http://media3.beautifulagony.com/fileid/25759/A2222M.wmv This may be valid only today, Wednesday September 14 2011, but you can go to the website any day and download one video, which might be a male or a female. -------------------- Oysters and Chocolate personnel: you can email me for more on this topic.
• Lauren
  9/14/2011 11:20:21 AM

  I love it when my boyfriend masturbates for me. And while I don't get bored, I usually get so horny that I take over before he can finish the job himself!
• @MissDeeBrief
  9/15/2011 12:06:10 PM

  I am NEVER bored watching partner's masturbate... xx
• Kat
  9/15/2011 7:07:51 PM

  One of My absolute favorite things in the bedroom is to have my boyfriend ejaculate on me. Last month we got frisky during my period, and after a very enjoyable hour of petting and kissing, I lay back on the bed using a vibrator while he knelt between my legs manually masturbating until we both came together. I must say it was one of our hottest encounters, and I adore the silky, sticky feel of his hot cum across my breasts and stomach. Especially with a sticky cuddle and hot shower after.
• The It Girl
  9/16/2011 12:10:44 AM

  Watching my husband masturbate is usually fun. We make goo goo eyes at each other, oooh and ahhh in the best porn movie fashion and generally make it an Experience. But not too often or it WOULD get boring. lol
• Alex Severn
  9/16/2011 4:26:08 AM

  For me as a straight man, I love to have a woman watch me masturbate because I want her to see that it's her that has made me hard, looking at her body, maybe we have kissed and stroked each other....I want to get harder and harder, I love to stroke my balls when i am masturbating, rub my skin and coax the tip of my head. A fantasy of mine for years has been to have a woman order me to strip and get myself erect for her. She is fully clothed. As I am getting harder, she calls a group of her female friends in to the room to watch me .Some of them kiss me, others play with my nipples and finger my arse (God I love that!!!) but they all comment on my cock and my balls, enjoying the sight of a man getting to ecstasy for them. I want to imagine they are thinking how it would feel if my ccok was inside them, fucking them hard and long...The sheer exposure, the vulnerability of my naked body before the women excites me and when i come, i come wildly, pumping my juice all over the place. I want to be made to lick it all up for my viewers, they will make me do it again if they wish, does this excite any female readers out there or is this just a man's fantasy please?
• Mrs. E.
  9/16/2011 5:11:28 PM

  I love watching my husband masturbate, and it's best when he starts with a soft cock. It is magical as he makes it grow rock hard, and he uses various motions - starting with soft strokes and progressing to to harder and faster movements as he gets closer to orgasm. As others mentioned, it is challenging to resist not partaking in his play, typically deep throating his cock. As he's about to climax, I like to watch his face and his breathing becomes heavier, and sometimes I put my face on his chest and feel his heart race as he climaxes. And there's nothing more exciting than when he cums on my tits and uses his tongue to spread it over me and shares it me in a deep, very wet kiss.
• Angela
  9/17/2011 7:39:45 PM

  Watch? Where's the fun in that!!
• naturegirl
  9/19/2011 10:48:35 AM

  Well, what a lovely bunch of replies!! I especially loved the first and last ones, humour is such an important part of good sex! And it would seem that I am in the minority when it comes to watching my man masturbate......
• lucy
  10/20/2011 10:50:44 AM

  My ex boyfriend and I would have oral sex until I had my orgasm, then for a few minutes he would enter me with his huge dick and just before he would get ready to cum he would pull out and masturbate on my tits or onto my stomach or on my pussy. Hottttttt !!! Oh my !! This is one thing I miss about him :)

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