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O&C Takeout - What's your definition of an AMAZING sex life?

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What is your definition of an AMAZING sex life?

Share your sexpertise and comment (anonymously) below!

Everyone has a different definition of what constitutes an amazing and satisfying sex life. One person may crave love and intimacy, while another may be thrilled by the hunt and the number of partners that s/he can seduce, or it could be defined by the number of encounters or orgasms one experiences with his or her partner, or by the act of being completely dominated...or completely dominant.

Tell us YOUR definition of an AMAZING sex life in this week's Take Out question. We just may quote you in our next book.

Remember, all answers can be 100% anonymous, just use a fake name.
xoxo
Jordan and Samantha


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Originally published January 2011

Comments

• Dick
  1/28/2011 9:12:45 AM

  I do not treat sex as sport or entertainment. Between two people is an expression of their relationship. Touch is an essential ingredient of human life. Like babies, you and I a massage is a pleasing sensuous (not necessarily sexual) feelings which include love and caring. To be sure to be approached by someone one admires, sexually, physically or intellectually another is enormously welcoming and validation which raises the intensity of the moment and may continue or conclude leaving both with memory and hope. Sex is a fundamental expression of the meaning of life. Reproduction is a purpose of life, but it is also an acceptance into the mystery of life.
• Lady luck
  1/28/2011 11:22:54 AM

  The best lover I've ever had: we had unbelievable chemistry, we'd have sex up to 7 times per day that we were together (even if it was 7 days in a row), I had countless orgasms, we spent hours and hours hot and sweaty together in such a blissed out state that when I came down I could barely remember what we had just done, we had few boundaries, we had sex in limitless locations, we explored, enjoyed, craved each other and devoured each other mercilessly. Since we parted ways I have yet to find a lover that fulfills me as much as he did. And six years later I still masturbate to the memory of our time together.
• j brooke
  1/28/2011 12:45:15 PM

  In deep space, the illusive cosmos, which is roughly fourteen to fifteen billions years old, mas or minus a billion years here and there, there are Quarks, electrons, Atoms, Dwarf Moons, asteroids, comets, all co existing in a Vector Potential electromagenetic force field, zooming around, many holding D-branes, black p-branes and of course Nevev-Schwartz branes all described within the world of Quantom Mechanics and Particle Physics, all brought together in the world of String Theory. Its is quite simple, and dictates that the bosonic string, incorporates only bosons, that creates a connection between bosons and fermions, which produce of course the usual unobservable dimensions of the universe, in addition to four spacetime dimensions. There are forever being moved, manipulated by Black Holes, where giant octupus suckers are gathering all force with in them, and most of it has been sussed out by that gimp cereberal wander Stephen Hawking, whos twisted and demented mind figured most of it out, most likely after he dropped acid. Now of course if you can understand any of this, then you can intelligently comment on "What makes great sex" between two people, which is an even more illusivbe black hole then String theory, though at times, with the right girl, I've found out that a bull whip helps at times. j
• Abrink of crazy
  1/28/2011 3:03:34 PM

  Amazing sex is unique secret not planned and exotic. its not perfect and you never know when it will happen.
• Fiona
  1/28/2011 3:18:43 PM

  Amazing sex is the kind that makes you think to yourself, "If I can only have 1 lover for the rest of my life, it would be this person." When we first touched, that's what I thought about the man I've been married to almost 30 years. I'd have married him that night, if he'd have asked. We explored each others' bodies like no one else ever had with me...and before him I was with more men than most women, with the exception of the ones who get paid for it. After that, just thinking about him and what we had done, and what we would do, gave me orgasms! We didn't sleep at all that night, just fell into an exhausted state after moaning and screaming for hours. The only night that topped that one was our wedding night! Phew! So when asked how we have been so happily married for so long I say, to quote Goldie Hawn being asked how she stays so young looking: "Good sex and plenty of it!"
• Yummy
  1/29/2011 6:23:57 AM

  Great Sex everynight of the week, with a partner that knows what he's doing. Thank my idea of an amazing sex life.
• Alex Severn
  1/29/2011 11:04:51 AM

  Reading fiona's words is to experience her joy happiness and conmmittment to another person.Wonderful but makes me feel empty, knowing I am a million miles away from where this lady is right now. My own relatonship is just about intact but any passion sexual feeling and love dissappeared way back. Last year, I thought I had found the woman I wanted for life, it was wonderful, passionate fulfilling. My submissive nature dovetailed with her feminie dominance, I was her helpless willing slave, her property, her whore......anything she wanted me to be and knew I was born to be hers. she gave me feelings I had never though possible, orgasms and desires, erotic arousal washed over me at her every word.......... But it was all a mirage in the end and she made it clear it was over. If she came to me again then yes I would fall at her feet again but I know she won't. I imagine she has replaced me long ago, a woman like her wouldn't have ny trouble being loved and worshipped, trust me! I have to accept I got what I deserved, I think we all do. The fault was in me, just as Fiona has acheived her paradise because she deserves to. I wish her all the best for ever, for me I try to look forward, not back and remember the dreams and the hopes. And yes of course I need to be a woman's slave, this goddess taught me that and its a painful deep lesson for a man. Alex XX
• Just K
  1/29/2011 2:56:23 PM

  I like sex for lots of reasons. Sometimes it's because it helps facilitate a physical or emotional (or both) closeness to a person I want to be with in that way. Sometimes I just need or want the release only a good orgasm can bring. There have been times when sex has helped me regain a sense of self after undergoing a stressful ordeal. I've also had times where I've been paid for sex. All and more have been part of a satisfying sex life for me and I embrace it all as part of living my life on my own terms.
• Piper
  1/29/2011 9:32:42 PM

  Amazing Sex Life - The sexual side of life. In my experience this has only been with my husband. However, we consider our sex life AMAZING! Why? Because it has variation. Sometimes we make love so slow it seems to last for hours, other times we fuck hard. Sometimes it is so tender it makes me cry and the next day it will be so fun and enjoyable that we are both laughing. We are open with each other on what we do and do not like. We try new things. We realize that it is up to us to keep the spark alive. We have sex in different places and at different times. We use it to bond and we use it to communicate. We both focus on the other's pleasure and in return our own pleasure is made greater. We recognize that God built us for pleasure and that our bodies are made to do this. We are meant to enjoy each other in this capacity. It is all of this that makes our sex life amazing.
• Rosalía Zizzo
  1/29/2011 10:36:39 PM

  Lovers should be open to new things, that is, as long as it's a technique/style/position/event/piece of apparel that has been agreed upon.To keep frequent sex from getting stale and continuing to stay amazing, change can be good.
• Kris williams
  1/30/2011 5:17:34 PM

  I have an amazing sex life with my partner. I've had more frequent sex with others, but no other man has given me the quality of sex that this one does. I think the reason is that we're both committed to pleasing the other. Even when he doesn't have an orgasm (and it doesn't happen for him every time - he's forty-eight now), he gets as much pleasure out of pleasing me as he does when he does come. And it's just as arousing to me to listen to him or watch him come (our favorite position is me on top) as it is for me to experience orgasm myself. To know that I'm everything he wants and that he's everything I want, even though both of us are far from perfect specimens, makes the sex just incredible. In other words, it's all about love and the connection we share - that's what makes the sex so fantastic.
• naturegirl1
  1/31/2011 6:01:49 AM

  The trouble is, "amazing" sex is such a movable feast! I've had some wonderful, sensual sex while making love with my husband on a sunday morning, the kind that last for hours, with interruptions only to get food & drink, the phone off the hook & the kids away on sleepovers! Then again we've had amazing sex during the course of a foursome with another couple, where I've lost count of the number of climaxes I've had. But I've also had some pretty good sex solo, with just my imagination & my fingers for company! What all this proves is that "amazing" sex is as much a state of mind as it is a physical reaction to stimulus.
• Kaytie Didhim
  2/1/2011 1:18:50 AM

  An amazing sex life is one that lives in an ever-evolving, delicious secret. I share with my lover such intimate fantasies, preferences, experiments. He appreciates the whore in me that others would be shocked to know existed. The best part comes from the newness that experimentation brings. I've known my lover for over 25 years and it has always been amazing. I don't get to see him often enough but at the core is our friendship, lots of talking and laughing and then raunchy or tender playing. And, oh, phone sex on the way to my place is better than Ky. No foreplay necessary.
• notmycupoftea
  2/21/2011 10:33:33 PM

  I am with naturegirl1: state of mind. I can care less about sex in general. If I do happen to have it, I go if there is that chemistry, that desire that overwhelms and takes over. O go all in, and nothing better than the other person enjoying it equally or more.

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