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How does cheating affect your sex life?

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How does cheating affect your sex life with your primary partner?

Share your expertise by commenting below

As the National Sex Scandal Examiners we often write about cheating celebs. This has us wondering what effects cheating has on a person's sex life with his or her primary partner.

Are you a man or a woman? Have you ever cheated or been cheated on? Did you notice if the cheating made any difference in the quality or quantity of sex you had with your spouse/primary partner?

Share your experience with us by commenting below.

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Originally published April 2010

Comments

• Anonymous
  4/13/2010 1:05:37 AM

  Cheating does effect the quality of love making. The quality of getting dumped by your mate due to the fact that you were fucking other girls too, now, that does do something. For some reason I had a harder time getting to my hardest after my chick dumped me. How she found out was by a fluke, a shear mistake. Some how the other women I was doing some how came in contact with my girl and they became friends. I didn’t even know they knew each other until one day I go home and they see all five of them there. I knew I was in trouble because I had never introduced them to each other--especially to my girl. So them all being there waiting for me I knew it was too much of a coincidence. They jumped me. I tried to run but they got me before I could take off. They were trying to beat me up but it kind of back fired. I had my shirt ripped, my pants got ripped too. I had scratches all over my torso and face. I was bleeding too. But oddly enough I was enjoying it--maybe a little too much. I wasn’t trying to get excited, in fact, I wasn’t even thinking about sex at that moment but for some reason I gained an erection. They started biting me and I’m not talking about soft little nibbles. I’m talking about biting down with full force. The girl that was on top of me I knew she had felt me get excite because she started rubbing down on it. Some where around that time I notice that my girl was walking away. That’s when I pushed the girls off me and went to her. That’s when she told me it was over. We have gotten back together but while I was not with her I felt really sad. I think sadness affects a guy’s hard-on.
• Anonymous
  4/13/2010 1:13:10 AM

  And one of the chicks I had forgot about. I only fucked her once. I have learned my lesson. Always be true to the girl you love.
• Jane
  4/13/2010 12:57:36 PM

  I once cheated on my husband and it made me not want to have sex with my husband anymore- I was trying to get out of a bad relationship. Another time I cheated on a boyfriend, after having sex with the guy I was cheating with I went straight over to my bf's house and had sex with him. It made me extra horny. This time I was just all about sex,sex, and more sex.
• Reeza
  4/14/2010 5:06:22 AM

  My hubby is a womanizer. Several times I caught him with a woman at home right in our bedroom and I was pregnant at that time. My sister who is a doctor advised me to stop having sex with him for she worries about me getting infected if he already got STD. I thought why would he be the only one having fun? So I turned to other guys and went out with them, though I cover it with pretenses of activities related to work, when in fact, it was my way of seduction and getting their attention. There's this one guy, my favorite boy toy, in the office. He is the cutest of my guys, though married too and with kids. I'd had an affair with him for a year though he refuses to have an intercourse with me. We'd go t the movies not watching but necking and petting, until I could not take it anymore and demanded that we do it in hotels. He still wouldn't have intercourse so we had "outercourse". He'd come everytime but I'd be left wanting and in heat. When we broke up, I was devastated. But soon I was transferred back as his Boss this time. I played a hard boss, giving him a hard time in his job to get his full attention, and coupled it with sexy revealing dresses and blouses at work. Soon I got him with me again but this time we did it in my car at nights, in the darkness at the park near our office. It's exciting and frustrating since he would passionately kiss me, fondle and suck my breasts and 3 -finger me but still I can't get him to enter me with his cock. I'd hand job him and suck him but he still wouldn't give. Humph! Ladies, I'd advise you to find someone else who can take you all the way and be the one giving you pleasure instead of just the other way around. I'd advise also that before you indulge in sex, be sure to clean up and freshen your cunt so your guy wont be turned off with the smell. I guess I got the infection from my husband and I can't et rid of the smell eversince. That must have been the cause why my BF wouldn't put it in me.
• Anonymous
  4/14/2010 8:04:32 AM

  Reeza it sounds to me that your boy toy is pussy. Or he most likely can't get it up and doesn't want you to think him less of a man. Also if your husband sleeps around why do you still stay with him? Either he's rich or godly in the sack. Even still you should tell your husband to knock it off and if he loves you like he should he will. :)

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