Dear Dr. Dick,
Hi, I have a question that I cannot ask anyone else, so I found your website and would really appreciate your advice. Ok, so when I have sex, sometimes, instead of coming when I have an orgasm, I pee. Sometimes I do come, though. But when it feels really good and I release, I release pee instead of cum. I just want to know if this happens to other people, and why this happens. And can I fix this? What can I do to make this not happen? I don’t like it happening. I feel bad for my boyfriend who has to have pee on his penis. Please, please, please take the time to reply to me. Thank you for your time. Have a great day.
— Anonymous.
Dear Anonymous,
Are you sure that what you are experiencing is pee? Could it possibly be that you are ejaculating? For a good deal of information on this, check out the site called The Clitoris.
Of course, lots of women feel like they have to pee when they come. In fact, lots of women actually do pee as they come.
If indeed you are peeing when you come, I’d say you are experiencing what we in the business call — stress incontinence.
Stress incontinence can happen just about any time. Anxiety, stress, working out, jogging, fucking 
can all trigger this type of incontinence.
Curiously enough, research shows that younger women actually have more stress incontinence during sex than do older women. While only 3%of women over age 65 reported incontinence during sexual activity, 29%of women under age 60 did.
Regardless of the cause of the stress incontinence — nervousness, exercise, or sex, there is one common denominator. It’s always related to the strength of a woman’s pelvic floor muscles. The weaker those muscles are, the more likely a woman will leak pee during physical exercise, fucking, sneezing, or even laughing.
While many women experience stress incontinence from time to time, there’s a relatively simple solution to the problem. Your pelvic muscles and the tissues surrounding them get stretched out and damaged with time. Pregnancies will also do a number on these muscles. They also weaken with age. And if you are overweight, well that will weaken pelvic floor muscles too, as well as add to the likelihood of stress incontinence.
So you might be asking right about now, what IS the simple solution? Why, it’s Kegel exercises, of course.
Good luck ya’ll
Dr. Dick
A note from Jordan and Samantha: Anonymous-- you really may be one of those gifted ladies who experiences frequent female ejaculation. A good way to tell the difference between ejaculate and pee is by its scent. Pee smells, well like pee, while ejaculate has no scent at all. It's more like water, you can also tell it's ejaculate if it doesn't stain the sheets.
Women can ejaculate when their g-spot is stimulated. For more information on this phenomenon you should read the book Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot. Good luck! xxoo J&S
Originally published April 2009