Dear Readers,
A friend of ours is going through a relationship crisis -- she's been involved with her boyfriend for a little over two years and they are in love. However, as a former party girl who's done it all, she's been getting a little antsy in the sex department and is starting to question her ability to remain monogamous. Recently she's found herself shamelessly flirting with numerous men at the gym and in her office, and she's gone as far as kissing her female co-worker during an after work happy-hour. She also admitted to having scandalous fantasies during sex with her boyfriend -- imagining that he's someone else. She told us that she really doesn't want to ruin her relationship, but that there's just this wild girl inside of her trying to get out.
This brings us to September's Take-Out question: What is an appropriate way for our friend to indulge her wild girl side without actually cheating on her boyfriend? And when do her actions become cheating?
xoxo
Jordan & Samantha
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