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O&C Take Out - What Are Your Masturbation Habits?

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Dear Readers,

The other night Jordan was at a bachelorette party and happened across a 28-year-old woman who had never masturbated before. This got the whole group of women buzzing about their masturbation habits: including how often they masturbated, what toys they used, how old they were when the first began, and how it has improved their overall sex lives.

This brings us to the August O&C Take Out question:"What are your masturbation habits?" How often do you masturbate? What's your favorite sex toy? And how has it affected your sex life (if at all)? These are a few questions to get the masturbation conversation rolling.

Post your anonymous responses below!

xoxo
J&S


O&C Take Out is an exciting monthly section created just for our readers. If you think of reading the delectable O&C stories as "eating in," then Take Out is a way for us to order out for opinions, comments and discussion from our readers.We hope it's informative, inspiring and fun! To engage in the conversation, simply submit a comment at the bottom of the article. We look forward to reading what our plethora of sophisticated readers have to say!


Originally published August, 2008

Comments

• Callie
  8/27/2008 5:43:18 AM

  Ok, I admit it, I masturbate every single day while watching low-brow porn online. It's my dirty little secret -- no one in my life, including my husband, know. But as far as I'm concerned, it's nobody's business but my own. ;)
• SamanthaSade
  8/27/2008 5:50:30 AM

  With a job like mine, it's hard not to get aroused! I've also joined the "every day" club. Instead of a smoke break, I take a jillin' off break! And while I don't watch porn every day, it's definitely one of my favorite personal tools. I only watch it by myself -- it's a personal indulgence.
• V.C.
  8/27/2008 8:02:43 AM

  I masturbate just about every day, mostly with my steel butt plug or my glass dong (or both). With the glass dong I use my feet to pump it in and out of me, its quite a workout and feelings more amazing and more orgasmic than using my hands! I usually love to experiment on my own before i perform it with my partner, these kinda experimentations include masturbating with many phallic objects, speculums, etc. The fun never stops! :)
• V.C.
  8/27/2008 8:07:02 AM

  Also, I LOVE porn, but sometimes i prefer to masturbate to music or watch bjork's Pagan Poetry, Cocoon, or All is Full of Love, those two videos seem to always get me off for its simplistic and yet avante-garde take on whats emotional and sexy and innocent at the same time.
• HornyHouseWife
  8/27/2008 12:58:36 PM

  Well, it took me a number of years before I became a masturbater... my now husband and I bought a vibrator together when I was 25... up until then I had tried it, but thought it was a lame substitute to sex. Now I do it all the time! Especially if I feel stressed out! It helps to take the edge off. Our relationship is much better since the purchase as well... not as angry, little things don't bother me as much and I relate it directly on to how much I get off! If we have anyone visiting us for an extended period of time and I can't get away to do it... I find myself getting irritated a lot easier without my masturbation time. He realizes it as well and encourages me to do it on my own, but I don't think he knows how frequent it has become.
• Z
  8/27/2008 1:02:02 PM

  I am so irresistible I can't keep my hands off of myself! I masturbate daily, mostly to internet porn, often after reading your stories, and most definitely in the shower when I actually have a quiet minute to myself.
• Vixie
  8/27/2008 8:35:24 PM

  I have to admit it...I'm a vibrator kinda girl. I love vibrating bullets, they are a girl's best friend! I typically masturbate a few times a week, more some weeks than others. When my boyfriend is around though I don't masturbate as often because he keeps me happy.
• Justine
  8/28/2008 10:27:38 AM

  I masturbate multiple times daily … in fact I’m visiting the sight to find a new story to cum too … :) I first began masturbating as a teen (humping a pillow). I was rubbing against everything I could find until I discovered my clit and learned I could do it with my fingers. I have two favorite dildos I use for my butt and pussy and a clit stimulator. How has it changed my life? Well I acted upon my bisexual fantasies. I enjoy writing erotica for my boyfriend and other friends and masturbate while doing that. After I send this letter I am going to cum thinking of all the other women masturbating at the same time :)
• Diane
  8/28/2008 12:46:44 PM

  I once admitted to one of your writers that I did it every three or four months and then my husband and I divorced and I found myself doing it every other day or so. I think I started about twenty, after I had my first two men and I have always used a vibrator, one of the silver things, not anatomically correct, it just takes care of me. Then, a couple months ago I found a new lover and have not had to take care of myself since then. Even though I only see him every eight or ten days, I have been so satisfied that my little “friend” has been very lonely except when he and I use it together. That is a real turnon because I’ve never had a man before that was willing to use it on or with me.
• JaynieReed
  8/30/2008 6:05:52 PM

  Great topic. I love masturbating. I do it more than my husband does, which is a running joke between us, because it seems that most people might assume that men are more prolific masturbators. I guess I do it about twice a week on average. I know everyone says that they love the rabbit, but I have to say, being too cheap to buy one, that my favorite toy has been my trusty little purple pocket rocket. I got it at an adult toy store for about $7.00. I just keep fresh batteries in it and it does the job every time. Usually 2-3 times!! Gotta love that consistency! I am not sure what age I was when I started, exactly, because in the early days, I didn't realize what it was called. I was just curious about my body and knew that touching myself felt good. At that time I was probably about 13. I was more curious about how I felt inside...soft and wet with strong muscles. I did not know anything about orgasms and I wasn't even trying to pleasure myself. I was simply exploring. Eventually that turned into actual masturbation, but I'm not sure how old I was. Here's to all the other self-satisfiers out there!
• Sarah
  9/1/2008 5:27:00 AM

  I masturbate almost daily and sometimes several times a day. I'll often masturbate in the shower and then later whilst reading internet erotica. As for techniques I usually caress and tease my clitoris but have a lovely glass dildo for when I want some serious penetration. What's intersting to me is the fact that i masturbate much more frequently than my husband, at least more frequently than he admits to! The frequency of masturbation isn't inversely related to how much sex I'm having. In fact the frequency goes up when I'm having more sex. It's just something that once you've discovered becomes more and more of a pleasure to do
• JaynieReed
  9/1/2008 4:50:34 PM

  Sarah: Funny thing. I also masturbate much more when I've been having a lot of sex. It seems the more I get, the more I want. I wonder if that's common?
• Sarah
  9/1/2008 10:58:09 PM

  Hi Jaynie, that's a really interesting thought. I just put it down to the fact that the more attention I was getting the more confident and self aware of my thoughts and body I became. I really enjoy masturbating. It is quality time when I enjoy being selfish. Like you it wasn't anything I consciously set out to do when I started. In fact as a young girl, probably 10 or 11 years old I used to do a lot of rough and tumble and gymnastics and I remember first discovering myself whilst doing a head stand against the wall. My skirt fell down over my head, of courxe i had no panties on (still don't!) and pushed my skirt up to cover myself and I remember this amazing feeling as my hand brushed against my labia. I've been a committed self-satisfier since!
• JaynieReed
  9/2/2008 6:24:33 PM

  Sarah: Nice. I appreciate your sharing. It's a pretty hot image, I must say. I think the accelerated desire comes from a combination of self-comfort and awareness as well as heightened arousal. In other words, you can never get too much of a good thing. Thanks for sharing. Jaynie

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