O&C Take Out

O&C Take Out - Female Ejaculation

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Welcome to our new section, O&C Take Out!

O&C Take Out is an exciting monthly section created just for our readers. If you think of reading the delectable O&C stories as "eating in," then Take Out is a way for us to order out for opinions, comments and discussion from our readers. Like an informal survey, we'll ask a question (of course, with a risque leaning), and invite you to give your thoughts and ideas about it. It's our hope to open up a dialogue between readers regarding all things erotic and sexual. We hope it's informative, inspiring and fun! To engage in the conversation, simply submit a comment at the bottom of the article. We look forward to reading what our plethora of sophisticated readers have to say!

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Jordan & Samantha

February's Take Out Topic:

Have you ever experience female ejaculation (as a woman) or helped induce it (as a lover)? Is it a regular thing for you? What do you think  of this most elusive of all female sexual experiences?

Comments

• JLR
  2/9/2008 12:05:06 PM

  I was just dreaming about this topic last night! I wonder if it had anything to do with knowing we'd be posting it today. I have had one partner with whom I could reliably experience the elusive female ejaculation - I mean SQUIRT every time. Now I'm on the hunt for that experience again. I loved it so much! Last night I actually attended a sex toy party and purchased a gadget called "Thumbs Up" which is a G-Spot vibe. I also bought a spray called "Between the Sheets" which is supposed to instantly dry up the wet spot and turn it into satin - wishful thinking? I hope it works! xoxo JLR
• Stevie
  2/10/2008 12:46:22 PM

  I always thought when a girl did this she was peeing!!!!!!
• Alanna
  2/10/2008 3:26:20 PM

  I have never, ever experienced F.E., but one of my best friends does it all of the time. She said that it's so fantastic and intense, I should definitely learn how to do it. Although she did say that it creates quite a lot of fluid; sometimes if she doesn't want to make a huge mess she has to make a conscious effort not to ejaculate. Wow.
• Z
  2/10/2008 5:19:19 PM

  For me when a woman squirts and soaks the sheets that is the greatest compliment...and turn on!
• SexyJ
  2/10/2008 9:15:53 PM

  Well, the first time I ejaculated, I had no idea what was happening. I completely lost my mind -- as with any good orgasm -- but in addition, I managed to create a giant puddle in my bed. There was so much liquid, that I wondered if I had indeed "wet myself" during my orgasm. But yet it didn't feel like I had... it was... different. It was not until years later that I learned what had happened -- the female ejaculation !! I wonder how many other men and women out there have no idea what it is, and have mistaken it as something else...? And I fear to think -- how many people have even tried to AVOID having one on the future -- because of the giant puddle and confusion? If the squirting and/or puddle issue bother you or your partner (which I hope is NOT the case!), try letting lose in the shower or the bathtub, where you can come to your heart's content and not worry about the mess! Ciao!
• Vixie
  2/13/2008 9:49:07 AM

  I don't think I can ejaculate. I've tried so hard to masturbate myself to ejaculation and fuck it if my fingers don't die trying! It's too hard. But people like SexyJ make me want to try harder!!!
• Reader
  2/14/2008 4:36:01 PM

  I once squirted so hard I hit my lover in his ear. We almost died laughing. Now he knows what a money shot feels like. LOL
• XXxXX
  2/17/2008 11:28:58 AM

  um...sick...
• Randi
  2/20/2008 6:27:30 PM

  In all my experiences, I have never ejaculated. I plan on working on that "talent" and perfecting it, especially after reading comments from those women who say only wonderful things about it.
• JLR
  2/20/2008 9:58:00 PM

  I wholeheartedly agree! I wish there were classes on "F.E. 101" at the local community college or something. Maybe I should start one. :P xoxo JLR
• Samantha
  2/22/2008 1:56:30 PM

  Ladies, there is a really good book out on the subject that I actually reviewed a couple of years ago. It's called Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot, by Deborah Sundahl. She talks explains the anatomy behind F.E. and also gives good advice on how to achieve it!
• JLR
  2/22/2008 2:01:29 PM

  P.S. You can find that review here: http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Reviews/899/FemaleEjaculationTheGSpotaBookReview.aspx (just copy/paste into your browser). xoxo JLR
• J
  2/22/2008 2:22:42 PM

  i have only once experienced it, when my boyfriend fucked me with his fingers in a semi-public place. since then it hasn't happened and i wonder if it was the exhibitionism of it all that got me off like that
• C
  2/24/2008 11:28:41 AM

  I ejaculate regularly with my boyfriend; it helps that his penis is curved like one of those G-spot dildos. It is very, very intense and I encourage women to try it. For me the best position is on my back, with my lower back lifted off of the bed. I also recommend folding a towel and putting it beneath you for easier cleanup.
• Queenie
  2/24/2008 5:27:39 PM

  I just came across this article and discussion and good timing: Today, I actually had an amazing new experience... I have had FE in the past on a fairly regular basis, but only with fingers, cock, toys, etc. Today, I came all over my stairs just from going down on my man's cock. I was so utterly intoxicated by sucking and licking him that I came all over, and left a puddle on the stairs -- no joke. It was incredible. And there had been no stimulation to my clit, g-spot -- nada! So to "J's" point above -- I think the emotional feeling is just as important to get you to ejaculate as the actual physical touch -- whether that is exhibitionism, "forbidden sex", or just being really, really fucking turned on by a sexual act. Cheers!
• Samantha
  2/25/2008 11:40:07 AM

  Queenie! Wowsers - that is amazing! Your story is proof that the most important sexual organ is the brain. I have read that most women experience their first F.E. while having affairs -- so yes, it is indeed the excitement of the situation that really affects whether a woman ejaculates or not.
• JLR
  2/25/2008 1:22:34 PM

  Queenie! NO FAIR!!!! :P I've experienced touch-free orgasms from giving head for sure, but a full on touch-free ejaculation? Now I have something to strive for. xoxo JLR
• K
  3/1/2008 7:55:51 PM

  My first time was with a newly purchased Ivibe rabbit, my former Dom had mentioned that if you continue to stimulate that area after you have already orgasmed...it can happen..Before he mentioned it, I had never heard of it. Decided to try it out one night when I was home alone...and wow...had I not known about it, would have freaked out....what an incredible feeling....and yes a towel is a good idea.. I find that the more I do it, the easier it is...can even ejaculate through clit stimulation now....not all the time..and I have found I can feel it coming (excuse the pun) and stop the squirting itself..and ride the orgasm... Anyways, just my 45 cents worth.
• Z
  3/2/2008 6:45:50 PM

  simply amazing...
• Al Harrington
  3/2/2008 6:54:51 PM

  As a man I am the last person that should give advice to women, particularly regarding female ejaculation. So, I won’t offer advice, just an opinion. Having spoken with a number of women in matters of sex I’ll opine that women usually have their first ejaculation while: having sex, masturbating with a dildo/vibrator, having already had two or three orgasms, having sex in a public place, masturbating with their fingers, they ... Hmm, maybe we come back to the fact that all women are different and you shouldn’t be disappointed if one thing or another doesn’t work. Just keep trying!

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