"Dear Barnabus,
My boyfriend and I enjoy a healthy, active sex life. We do everything from regular sex, oral and anal. However, I seem to have problems when it comes to giving him a hand job. The skin on my hands seems to stick to the skin on his penis, and I'm afraid I'm chafing him rather than pleasuring him. I would so love to get him off with a hand job. Do you have any tips for how to give the ultimate h.j?
Sincerely,
Not So Rosy Palms"
Dear Not so Rosy Palms,
Use Lotion...
Applesauce...
Olive oil...
Ice cream and a hand full of ice are also fun.
Understand where you're coming from. Nothing like a handjob. I, myself, love them. And, I'm pretty sure Samantha loves giving them too (my knee gets pretty wet when we're partaking).
Lotion is the obvious answer and probably not what you're looking for. A couple of suggestions outside of lotion:
To perform one without lube, use a feather touch with your fingers. You can move the skin on the penis without hurting him... believe me, his skin is much more elastic than you think. Move it, dance over it. Don't' worry about chafing, and remember that a light touch feels exquisite. Stroke your fingers lightly over him. Scratch his balls with the tips of your fingertips... lightly! Rub him softly and listen to his moans. I promise you, he'll love it.
A great addition to any handjob is to find something else on the body to augment it. Licking a nipple while stroking your guy is a guarantee to get him off if that's his kind of thing. A man who loves a deep, passionate tongue sucking will definitely appreciate this while having his member stroked. Or lick his balls while your hand moves up and down... there are many things you can do to embellish the every day h.j.
The best alternative is to mount your man and lubricate him with your own pussy juice, then climb off and use that as lube.
The grand daddy move: If you're really into embellishment, roll him onto his belly, get him up on his knees, put your tongue on his ass and milk his cock like a cow's utter. If he's crying for lotion at this point, send him on his way!
Good luck!
-Barnabus
Originally published April 2006 - "April Showers"